Why should you not be around negative people that don t accept you?
- If you are surrounded by people who don t accept the real you for a long time,
You end up becoming a smaller version of yourself. - once you become a smaller version of yourself, you start doing this to others. How? By not accepting them or denying them of your true self.
Others will demand more from you because they can see a better version of yourself, but since you don t recognize your best version anymore, you will be negative towards them. Furthermore, since you were hurt by those not accepting you, you re punishing everyone else. Vows like “I rather stay alone” or “I ll never allow others to see the best of me again, no one will hurt me again” may have taken hold on you.
Others will start feeling you are rejecting them, doing to them, what was done to you. This is why once you stay in an abusive environement, you may become an abuser(untreated trauma)
Please take care of yourself and your energy. We humans are very fragile and we shape shift to survive imbalanced environments.
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Read this as many times as necessary.
E.P
Psychologist
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